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Is It Possible Men Really Look For Inner Beauty In A Woman?
Posted by on November 21st, 2009
Posted in Celebrity Beauty Secrets 
Tags: Beauty, Beauty Woman, Inner, Inner Beauty, Look, Possible, Really, Woman
Posted in Celebrity Beauty Secrets Tags: Beauty, Beauty Woman, Inner, Inner Beauty, Look, Possible, Really, Woman
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your right inner beauty transcends but, they have to get to know you first.
it is just easier for the Hallie berry types to make friends since there is an initial attraction.
you need to hang out with guys & just be their friend…. down the road you’ll meet someone & once he gets to know you then a realationship may develop. you just have to start out as friends first so they get a chance to know you & discover that inner beauty. there are times if you are good friends with a guy that he may have a friend in the same situation & you could be hooked up or maybe even get to know someone over they phone first but, they need to be able to see your inner beauty. just asking some guy out because you know them a little doesn’t qualify.
yeah you may not be a halle berry… but, when you find love, you know it will last…
hope this helps,
ss
Looking for guys to attract is not your issue at this time. You are becoming who you will be after your studies are done, then you will know what kind of man would do you the most good. Focus on you now, and how you can be the best you can be. Much better than asking for trouble, which you don’t need. Patience, love for yourself, a deep faith in your source helps.
Been there and thought all of what you say. Small has never been part of my description even at the time I was a baby & I’m 56 now. I’m not a minority by race only by the fact that I’m a woman independently making it on her own. Trust me–be happy with yourself and all the rest eventually falls in place. Stop and look at the “couples” are they really happy? Will having a man in your life make your life perfect?
first things first. the physical beauty is step one. you need to be attracted to the other person and then you can discover the inner beauty. i guess it’s possible the other way, but probably much rarer.
No. I used to think the same thing, but I had two problems. One, I never believed it when somebody was interested. I was positive they couldn’t be, because, well, just look at me! My own mindset was a major problem.
Two, I hadn’t found the right one. But I did, and it’s great! And it’s way worth waiting for, and it will come eventually!
Cheer up, be patient, don’t lower your standards!
Yes. It is very possible…as a matter of fact more guys need to realize that beauty will fade with time. If guys are only interested in the way a woman looks so that they look better themselves, then they will wind up in a horrible relationship. As we all know, in 50 years, we just want someone to hold and love. We need a partner that makes us smile and laugh. Beauty is nice but in the end it gets you nowhere.
and hopefully guys who read this can take it to heart.
P.S. I am a 21 year-old guy who refused to look for “the looks” and iI am happily married to a wonderful woman who looks nothing like Jennifer Aniston or Halle Berry. Good luck
yes what a person looks like have no effect on there personailty
Rare, but some do. Don’t sell yourself short.
Inner beauty is noticed, but when you are insecure and worry so much about not being a toothpick, the neurosis drives men away…
I just hope that you are doing this for yourself and not to get guys. In the end beauty fades any way. Just be yourself honey and don’t be in a rush to please others…please yourself first and others will follow.
Society teaches to see the outside first, and that is true for both guys and girls. Let’s face it, when you see some muscle bound hunk at the beach, your first thought is not “I wonder what books he likes to read?”
Same for guys, when some supermodel type struts past, he’s not wondering if her favorite food is Mexican.
I myself am not much to look at as far as society goes. I’m fat, have grey hair, wrinkles and I dress like a redneck most of the time. However, sometimes I’ll be somewhere and out of the blue some stranger will say he thinks I’m pretty, or he’ll flirt just a little. Why ? Not sure, but one piece of advice I’ll give you…. Smile. A lot. At everyone. It improves your “face” value, and it’s free and easy to use.
I’ve been told more than once by guys I didn’t know and who certainly wouldn’t normally give me the time of day that I have a great smile. I know it seems silly, but if your smile catches his eye, chances are he’ll want to see more of it. Besides, it makes people wonder what you are up to. lol
i do
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I’d have to disagree with your ananlysis that men only want skinny women. Most men like a little meat on their bones, shoot its more fun for them. As far as being low maintenance, good for you. Some men like a low-maintenance woman it makes their days easier. Though strangley, as a counter to that, they like for you to be dressed up from time to time, go figure.
Anyhoo, as far as being a minority… well… heres the thing race mixing is not openly accepted in America the way people want you to think it is. Men are quite afraid of being ridiculed for being different and will not date outside their race. Its more than possible that your crush at school liked you but didnt want to deal with the racial implications that would come forth.
Not trying to hurt feelings, this is just how I see it… Your time to shine will come and when it does you will be bright!
If they want only a one night ****, then you have to look like j.lo or other hollywood’ies, but if they need a normal girlfriend they realy look both to outside and inside of you…at least that’s what my friends guys do…anyways-it you’d look realy awful, guys would even try to get to know other sides of you…
I am afraid so, but not to worry, guys are jerks anyway.
yep inner beauty is one of the best things, but you also have to have some physical attraction to the person you want to be with. I don’t really know what a size 10 is sorry so I don’t know, but if you consider yourself over weight I would suggest eating better and getting some exercise, not just to help attract a guy but for your own heath as well.
and no you don’t have to look like them girls, I like girls of all kinds, I do prefer if a girl doesn’t wear pants bigger then mine though.
i know its on your mind but i wouldn’t dwell on it too much. the decent guys out there do really look past the outside and do see the inside. its the inside that counts for a lasting relationship,,25 years of marriage isn’t built on big boobs or what he’s got in his pants..its the trust and companionship..friendship.love from within that makes a relationship…you’ll see and when the guy comes along and sees you for what you truly are inside..then you’ll have something that will last.
Your weight doesn’t matter to men. However, being a minority is a major warning sign that all smart men know to avoid. It’s not an attraction thing so much as we are worried about personality traits similar to anti-social personality disorder. This is very common among minorities and normal people avoid this at all costs.
However, there are easily mitigating factors. If you are educated with obviously good morals and a good family background, nobody will care about the minority thing in the slightest.
Normal people are ALWAYS attracted to other normal people no matter how they might differ from themselves.
When guys get older, they appreciate inner beauty. Women who are pretty on the out side can be real b*****s on the inside.
it is true that as men get older they start to appreciate inner beauty rather than just outter. your not doomed, but dont try so hard to get men to like you….find someone who likes you just the way you are. there are men out there who dont want a halle berry or jennifer aniston look alike…just be yourself. and if someone doesnt like your for that then **** them because its there loss anyway!
No you don’t! I believe in inner beauty. Sure, those with physical beauty may get more attention, but without inner beauty it is impossible to be liked. However, with inner beauty, people may not notice you at first but when they get to know you, they will be charmed to date you. Forget those guys, it’s their loss. If you can’t find a man who appreciates you for who you are, then you might as well not have a man.
If you are doing all of what you say you are, someone will notice your persistence. That persistence will reward you down the road. As far as your weight…there are guys out there who PREFER women who are heavy.
Yes, inner beauty does count in the long run. But before the men will see what you have to offer, you need to feel good about yourself first. Self-confidence (not self-centered) is a turn-on. Keep up on trying to lose weight; that will give you the confidence you need. The men will soon follow!!
most of the time they dont, some very good guys do but most of the times no, it depends on how much they like u
Oh my. You project an image that says you do not think you are worthy and therefore you proceed the same way. Confidence is key to getting things/people you deserve in life. There is nothing wrong with your weight unless it causes you problems. Be happy in the body you have or make efforts to adjust it. In any case, a man who likes you and your body is the one for you. Men like all kinds of bodies. Yours is included in one category or another. Keep sayingto yourself that your someone is out there and just be yourself with much confidence behind the way you walk, talk and behave and watch the difference. Bless you.
it’s exactly the same way for me! i used to be PUDGY, and have since lost 9kg. but i still can’t help but feel insecure of myself.. cause there still are many guys out there who discriminate me because i’m not stick thin?
my friends all assure me that, you know, i’ve got a cute, quirky personality, i’m a good singer and blah, but like.. i find all these hard to believe.
as in, i DO love myself, but it’s just that.. sometimes, the way guys criticise me, the way they make jokes about me, it really cuts into me.
and it’s because of this that i’ve got a phobia for guys??
like, seriously, we all know that most guys look more for beauty than intellect, wit, in short, all that encompasses inner beauty?
There is always someone for everyone. It may take you awhile but eventually the right one comes along. This holds true for men or women. To your own self be true. Then you’ll never disappoint your partner.
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Hey, i’m sorry you’ve had some crushed hearts and have had to heal. Thats really hard, physically and mentally (in my case and i assume in others). But it isn’t true that you have to look like Aniston or a super model for a guy to find you attractive physically. There are decent men out there who will find you very beautiful inside and out. Personally, i tend to find physical attraction by my personality attraction towards them. Some men will find you breathtaking if thats how they feel about your “inner beauty”. I know thats how it is for me, so there must be others too. Don’t give up on men, you’ll find someone.
And also, i’m not sure what a size 10 is. But i agree with others who say you should try to eat healthy and maybe lose some weight just because it is healthy and you could live a longer life.